5 Simple Ways to Be More in the Moment With Your Kids

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It’s pretty challenging being a parent. you most likely already have a day job, plus other responsibilities outside of work, and on top of that, you also have a family to take care of. Managing a family is already a full-time job on its own, so we understand why parents may feel overwhelmed or distracted at times and even feel like they are not fully present for their kids.

Luckily, there are many things that we can be more present for our kids, and if you read on, you may find that some of these methods may help you in this department of life.

Put Phone Away When You’re With Your Kids

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It’s not enough to just simply be around your kids. you have to be there and present, and when you’re on your own, you won’t be there in the moment. your kids deserve to have you with them without you checking your phone every five minutes.

When you have your phone on you, then you’re more likely to feel the need to check it. By leaving your phone in a designated place when you want to get some quality time with your kids, you avoid most temptations to want to check it ever so often.

Set Time Aside for Having Fun With Your Kids Daily

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When you bring a child or children into this world, you pretty much sign an unwritten contract to shake things up in your life. This means your whole routine is almost always going to revolve around the things that need to be taken care of for your family.

Sure, there are so many things that have to be attended to when we have children, but it’s important to set time aside each day for things that are enjoyable both for you and your children.

Stop Social Media and News Around Your Kids

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Both the news and social media can suck anyone into its great abyss for minutes and sometimes even hours on end. your kids may need your full attention when you’re with them, and when you’re doom-scrolling or getting carried away with the news, you may not be able to give your kids your undivided attention.

Just remember that the news and social media aren’t going anywhere, and they’ll still be there a few hours later if you want to get back to it.

See Every Moment With Your Child as a Gift ( That Doesn’t Keep On Giving)

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Having young children is such a blessing, but sadly, they grow up so fast. They aren’t going to be youngsters living under your roof forever, and before the blink of an eye, they may be all grown up and out of the house, so you may as well see every waking moment with them when they are young as a precious gift.

Introduce Mindful Practices

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If you are ever feeling overwhelmed when you are with your kids, then perhaps you can try one of these methods to calm yourself down again and bring yourself back to the present moment:

  • Stop and take a few deep breaths
  • Rub hands together until they warm up
  • Do an upwards-to-the-sky stretch
  • Tense and release leg and foot muscles

7 Ridiculously Helpful Tips for Very Busy Parents

 

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Parenting can be just as rewarding as it is challenging. Somehow, there always seem to be new challenges or opportunities on the horizon. It’s important to be adept and equipped with the right strategies in this ever-changing world if you want to raise your kids to the best of your ability.

Here, we’ve summed up some helpful parenting tips to help you get by as a parent in the 21st century.

7 Ridiculously Helpful Tips for Very Busy Parents 

15 Ways to Get Your Kids Interested in Saving

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As a parent, instilling good values and virtues in your kids is important.

As parents, we must teach our kids basic life skills, including talking about money. Basic financial literacy is an important part of educating your children. Saving money is an important part of life, but your kids are probably not very interested in putting their money away where they can’t spend it. It’s your job to get them interested in saving money.

15 Ways to Get Your Kids Interested in Saving

Hey Millennials, Remember These 16 Lies You Heard Growing Up?

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If you’re a Millennial, you’re probably so over being blamed for most of the world’s ills, even though your parents or their parents deserve most of the blame. So let’s vent a little and share some lies we were fed and which can’t go away soon enough.

Spoiler Alert: these are all lies, and none of them are true.

Hey Millennials, Remember These 16 Lies You Heard Growing Up? 

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